A holiday arrangement specifies how school holidays and public holidays are divided between parents. This is included in the parenting plan to avoid conflicts.
Division of Holidays
Common divisions are as follows:
| Holiday Period | Arrangement |
|---|---|
| Summer Holiday | Three weeks per parent, or a 2-2-2 week division |
| Christmas Holiday | Alternate annually |
| Spring Holiday | Every other year with the other parent |
| May Holiday | Alternate annually |
| Autumn Holiday | Alternate every other year |
Arranging Public Holidays
Public holidays often receive a specific division:
- Christmas: First day with one parent, second day with the other (or vice versa)
- Easter: Similar division as Christmas
- Child's Birthday: Child celebrates with both parents or alternates annually
- Mother's Day and Father's Day: Child with the respective parent
Making Agreements
When establishing a holiday arrangement:
- Set a deadline for notifying holiday plans
- Determine who gets to choose first
- Make agreements on conflicting wishes
- Take into account both parents' work schedules
- Consider rules for international travel (consent)
Travel Abroad
For holidays outside the Netherlands:
- Notify the other parent in good time
- Share the travel destination and contact information
- With joint authority: official consent is required for travel documents
- Carry a consent form (recommended)
Passport and Identity Card
With joint authority, both parents must agree to the application for a passport or ID card for the child. This also applies to foreign travel.
What if we cannot reach agreement on holidays?
Try to discuss it together first. If that does not work, a mediator can assist. As a last resort, the court can impose an arrangement.Is consent from my ex needed for a foreign holiday?
With joint authority, official consent is required. Within Europe, informal agreement is often given, but outside Europe a written declaration is advisable.Can I go on holiday longer than agreed?
Only with the consent of the other parent. Without agreement, you may not unilaterally adjust the arrangement, which may be regarded as obstructing contact.Frequently Asked Questions
How do I fairly divide the summer holiday?The summer holiday is often divided into blocks of three weeks per parent or in a 2-2-2 week pattern. Make clear agreements on who chooses first and record this in the parenting plan. Take work obligations and holiday plans into account. Can I travel abroad without the other parent's consent?
With joint authority, formal consent is required. Within Europe, verbal consent is often given, but outside Europe a written document is recommended. Without consent, you risk legal problems. What if my ex does not cooperate with the holiday arrangement?
Try to discuss it first or engage mediation. If this fails, the court can make a decision. Document all communication for any potential court case. How do I organise public holidays such as Christmas and birthdays?
Public holidays are often alternately divided, such as first Christmas day with one parent and second with the other. For birthdays, the child can see both parents or alternate annually. Record this in the parenting plan. May I adjust the holiday arrangement without consultation?
No, unilateral changes without consent are not permitted and may have legal consequences. In case of disagreement, consider mediation or involving the court. ### Arslan & Arslan Advocaten **Arslan & Arslan Advocaten** provides professional legal guidance and support for your legal matters. - Website: [www.arslan.nl](https://arslan.nl) - Email: [info@arslan.nl](mailto:info@arslan.nl) - Free initial consultation